So recently, I was having a conversation with a man who was about 32 years old. He spoke about how it blows his mind that there are so many single professional women and can’t figure out why. I explained to him that men don’t chase anymore. It’s like they’re high maintenance and requires women to chase them. One point that he made that stuck with me was that nowadays, women are very aggressive and don’t require men to chase them. I find some validity with that but at the same time, I don’t fit that type. I don’t chase. I recently gave my number to a man because I had some tequilla to help me lol however; I normally wouldn’t do so unless I’m asked. This person in particular just had this thing about him that I couldn’t ignore. The bigger issue is, what happens afterwards? He may do the initial calling and texting but when is it okay for the woman to call or text without seeming thirsty? I don’t want to search for my husband. It doesn’t feel right and really just don’t have the time! I spend my time trying to prepare myself and to get where I need to be in life. Maybe I have this idea about how dating should be and I’m scared. Who knows? I clearly don’t lol Either way, I don’t like how the roles have changed. Another point that this man made was that no one believes in old-fashioned dating and courting. I couldn’t agree more!!! It’s been ions since I’ve been on a date! I don’t even know what it feels like! I know I sound dramatic but it’s my truth. I think that because men don’t court women like they used to, the norm has been lost. Women are treated to good manners or a nice outing besides dinner and a movie. Now granted, there are some men out there that extend themselves but they are very far and few or married. So, do you think men are too high maintenance and have reversed roles now or are women just too damn thirsty due to the shortage of men? Thoughts?
Til Later,
J. Street
